Lasára Allen » Relationship and Intimacy http://lasaraallen.com …author, educator, activist, coach. Sun, 13 May 2012 03:01:55 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 Breaking Out of Isolation http://lasaraallen.com/articles/breaking-out-of-isolation/ http://lasaraallen.com/articles/breaking-out-of-isolation/#comments Mon, 21 Feb 2011 01:18:40 +0000 Lasára Allen http://lasaraallen.com/?p=2970 Lonely, by John Arsenault

There are lots of lonely people in the US. According to a study titled “Social Isolation in America: Changes in Core Discussion Networks Over Two Decades“ that was published in 2006, one in four Americans have not a single person in their lives with whom they discuss “important matters.” And,

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]]> http://lasaraallen.com/articles/breaking-out-of-isolation/feed/ 0 A New Generation of Fathers – A Shout-Out to the New Dad http://lasaraallen.com/articles/a-new-generation-of-fathers-a-shout-out-to-the-new-dad/ http://lasaraallen.com/articles/a-new-generation-of-fathers-a-shout-out-to-the-new-dad/#comments Sun, 20 Jun 2010 22:30:58 +0000 Lasára Allen http://lasaraallen.com/?p=1804 I know very few peers who were raised by both parents. I have very many peers whose fathers were at best absent, and at worst abusive. Though really, abandonment leaves scars nearly as readily as any other kind of abuse does.

Most of us lived through our parent’s divorces as kids. Divorce is as prevalent as

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]]> http://lasaraallen.com/articles/a-new-generation-of-fathers-a-shout-out-to-the-new-dad/feed/ 3 Confessions of a Bad Polyamorist http://lasaraallen.com/articles/confessions-of-a-bad-polyamorist/ http://lasaraallen.com/articles/confessions-of-a-bad-polyamorist/#comments Wed, 16 Jun 2010 23:25:28 +0000 Lasára Allen http://lasaraallen.com/?p=1789 Polyamory (from Greek πολυ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [love]) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. -Wikipedia

Love is God, God is love, both are the same, and as God, love is limitless.

This

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Show up as who you

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]]> http://lasaraallen.com/articles/how-to-heat-up-the-home-fires-and-reintroduce-romance-to-your-relationship-everyday/feed/ 2 What Women Want – The Ten Secrets Every Husband, Lover, or Partner Needs to Know! http://lasaraallen.com/articles/what-women-want-the-ten-secrets-every-husband-lover-or-partner-needs-to-know/ http://lasaraallen.com/articles/what-women-want-the-ten-secrets-every-husband-lover-or-partner-needs-to-know/#comments Wed, 27 Jan 2010 05:46:59 +0000 Lasára Allen http://lasaraallen.com/?p=790 A preface for the ladies; Feel like you want your guy to know a few things about you? Like maybe what you want, and how you feel? If those things aren’t covered in this article, I invite you to write your own note to the man you love, and tell him about your top ten desires,

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